Explain how transference/counter transference can be effectively addressed in counseling

Explain the various dynamics of transference and countertransference noted in the clip https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CAMD2r53oyw
What would you do and/or say in managing transference if you were the counselor

References:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QDd7iJxn370 mins: 0:45-11:28